At First Glance

All women, young and old, can understand or have even experienced the one significant moment, time, place and feeling that you get when you lock eyes with that perfect man; the man that embodies your ideal mate, boyfriend, and husband. No matter how you picture this man to be, whether he be tall, dark and handsome, smart and successful, strong and supportive or perhaps even geeky, he’s nothing shy of perfect. No matter whom they choose to or end up being, there is no flaw or limitation as to how you two will be able to thrive together. You get this feeling. It’s unexplainable, really, but when the room is entered, and out of the crowd you see his face, when nothing else matters and the world genuinely slows down momentarily… When you go to gasp for air that isn’t available and you regain the strength to think to yourself that he wouldn’t be interested in you and that you are merely infatuated with his appearance but maybe, per chance, your paths will cross – but you’re not in pursuit because he would never really be fond of you. The only hope one has from there is to eventually meet this man and strike up a conversation. The lucky ones get their chance to. However, some women are not so lucky. I was extremely fortunate.